Everyone chuckles about it after the fact. I'm just not there yet!
Until you've lived through it I guess you just can't grasp what it feels like to prepare your home for a Home Study visit. The intense labor of love whereby an adoptive family attempts to prepare their home for inspection while entering into the insane world of obsessive compulsion, hoping to somehow make the grade as great parents just because your base boards are sparkling clean. Well, I know I am not the first perspective adoptive mother to get down on all fours and scrub my grout with a tooth brush for the sake of a a bit more confidence when our SW walks through the front door!!
This week has been one of the most insane weeks of my life and it's only Thursday! Our whole family was sick beginning last week and is still battling a viral infection this week. We thought it was strep but the tests came back negative. I was the only one who survived without getting the funk. Who-hoo! Thank goodness for small miracles, because that left me able to get all the work done I needed to finish up for the visit.
My beloved mom came over yesterday to help me finish up the finer points of cleaning I really wanted to accomplish but just couldn't seem to get around to it this week. What with our A/C unit blowing up! Yes, the irony of the A/C Contractor not being able to get his own unit fixed was not lost on my hubby who has been fighting to get our much needed parts from Tennessee (they were lost in transit and now have to be resent! Ugh!)
All this to say that I have obsessed about as much as I can take. I leave it to our SW and the Lord to work out the details. At least I know that every inch of this house is as clean as it will ever get and that I have organized and "nested" 'till my heart's content - just as I have done in preparation for all of my children.
I'll fill you all in on how our visit goes tomorrow night! Pray for us!!!
Never Lose Hope
7 years ago
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Jen,
We had just bought our house when our social worker came to see it. We weren't even living in it yet (and wouldn't be for the next month), so there wasn't one scrap of furniture in the place. There were projects left undone from the previous owners and thankfully, in spite of all of that, he approved us. I'm now obsessively repairing and painting everything in our house, I mean nesting, yeah, nesting. I think I will be until the children come home.
So what did you think about the Ultimate Gift? Had you read the book?
We'll be praying for the homestudy tonight. Can't wait to hear how it goes.
~Penelope
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